tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701054668456132734.post7859601914231098928..comments2023-05-14T06:38:39.836-07:00Comments on Delicious Morsels: stream of consciousnessHeathshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16032870562144828266noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701054668456132734.post-10503708164621867892012-03-25T07:58:04.587-07:002012-03-25T07:58:04.587-07:00Haha!! I saw you pinning pregnancy/baby stuff and...Haha!! I saw you pinning pregnancy/baby stuff and I was like "aaah!! Is she having another baby? Miles and desmond are the same age, should I be having another baby?"<br /><br />It's a hard decision, mostly because there's no real "right" answer. Some people have no kids, one kid, two kids, six kids, ten kids....and you have to take into account your own mental health, the state of your marriage, etc.<br /><br />One thing I used to tell myself is that you might regret not having another, but you'll never regret one of your children. However, you don't want to push yourself too much and get lost in the chaos.<br /><br />Hmmm....well we were veg/mostly vegan for a while, but then spring break came....haha. But I think we need to get back to that because I've been feeling pretty crappy lately. <br /><br />If you ever want to discuss the baby decision endlessly, I'm here!!Heathshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16032870562144828266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701054668456132734.post-46801664241942240092012-03-24T20:01:49.512-07:002012-03-24T20:01:49.512-07:00I just spent the last bit reading your blog and TO...I just spent the last bit reading your blog and TOTALLY wishing we were still "neighbors"! You are an amazing mommy and so much fun to be around. Why didn't they make us companions earlier so I could have got to know you more. Thank goodness for blogs. :)<br /><br />As for the kid thing, I'm in your same situation right now!! Jocelyn and Miles are almost 3 years apart but we tried for them to be closer and it took over a year to get pregnant so you never know how long it will take (although, it seems like you have good luck with the timing :) ) Miles and Desmond are the same age and I am freaked out to have another but feel like I should. Aagh, it takes so much courage! Why am I afraid? Well, not because of the baby so much as the pregnancy. My body doesn't like being pregnant. I do love babies though!<br /><br />Anyways, no advice really. There are so many things to consider. Best of luck! Miss you and chatting!! I love people that are open!<br /><br />question- do you eat vegetarian?Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16037802040486344174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701054668456132734.post-86161630544561463002012-03-22T20:05:47.942-07:002012-03-22T20:05:47.942-07:00that's interesting. i think that's how it...that's interesting. i think that's how it is for most people. almost everyone i've asked said the leap from 0-1 was really hard, or that the change from 1-2 was a big adjustment. it makes sense, by the 3rd one you should kind of have things figured out right? ;)Heathshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16032870562144828266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701054668456132734.post-26726947082967484332012-03-22T20:02:48.337-07:002012-03-22T20:02:48.337-07:00I think everyone thinks about this they just don&#...I think everyone thinks about this they just don't voice it (that's how I am anyway). In my opinion, you are super brave to have 2 kids so close together. I don't know why, but for me the leap from 1 to 2 seems huge, but 2 to 3 not so huge, haha.Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11806956882867182202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701054668456132734.post-48618003114869763182012-03-12T18:53:56.242-07:002012-03-12T18:53:56.242-07:00nikki! you can totally do it! have more!
;) i&...nikki! you can totally do it! have more!<br /><br />;) i'm always ready for my friends to have more babies. they make such cute ones!<br /><br />i understand though. and i was thinking about it and i think i need some time to "rediscover myself" as it were (or discover myself in the first place...) before i'm ready to have any more children. i think if i'm in a more stable and confidence place as a woman i'll be able to offer a lot more as a mom.<br /><br />keep it up though! freddie is adorable and you seem like such a loving mom.Heathshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16032870562144828266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701054668456132734.post-85396578236241183862012-03-12T15:59:32.087-07:002012-03-12T15:59:32.087-07:00Right after I had Freddie I truly thought that 1 w...Right after I had Freddie I truly thought that 1 was enough and that that was it......even though I had a pretty good pregnancy (minus bless palsy, arg)..... And I had an incredible birth!!!! Serious. I loved it. It's just that he filled every void. And it was hard. <br />So then one day I was looking at photos of my fav photographers newborn with 2 other children and was like...awwww......siblings for Freddie!!!!!! I wanted more. Then recently my husband was busy with work stuff and though I wasn't justified, I was frustrated and tries to get back at him by not wanting anymore and telling him so!!! <br />But then I recently I realized how wonderful he is an much he really helps me and I know I can do it. <br />PLUS there is the possibly of a girl, and while that freaky, it's also exciting!!!<br /><br /><br />I SAY DO IT! Three!!!! Love you!!Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07555907857085318255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701054668456132734.post-27539242965479352702012-03-11T08:53:37.281-07:002012-03-11T08:53:37.281-07:00Silas is not going to be happy with you guys.... ...Silas is not going to be happy with you guys.... ;)Heathshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16032870562144828266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701054668456132734.post-36448784510609771062012-03-11T08:50:09.596-07:002012-03-11T08:50:09.596-07:00Babies babies babies babies babies babies !!!!Babies babies babies babies babies babies !!!!nickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06743086730699961763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701054668456132734.post-23082682935138304092012-03-10T16:41:34.124-08:002012-03-10T16:41:34.124-08:00You know my vote... But I honestly don't know ...You know my vote... But I honestly don't know how you even hack two ;) yikes that sounds, um, illegal and creepy. And don't worry, I'd say you still have a solid six months before your third would be considered not super close in age. And three more years before its considered a "gap." that said... Make more babies!!!<br /><br />I'm just trying to make silas my best friend ;)elyssahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09484219218322947296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701054668456132734.post-11830268074451083012012-03-09T22:01:16.765-08:002012-03-09T22:01:16.765-08:00Ohhhh Heatha...as much as I want you to have anoth...Ohhhh Heatha...as much as I want you to have another baby, don't do it unless you are absolutely sure it's time. If you think it is time, but you are letting your fears hold you back...cut it out!Robin Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09043263442165502232noreply@blogger.com